Mmmm

Date last night. With an actual butch girl, which in my recent past has been unfortunately rare. She's totally adorable and I would gladly have spent the whole date nibbling on her ear, but I suppose that's inappropriate for a second date... maybe next time.

The only problem is, she identifies as a bottom, which means it's my job to make the first move (among other things). Now, for the most part I'm pretty OK with that if not terribly experienced. But my problem is that I know all the girly ways to show someone that I want them to make a move, but I don't necessarily know if and how I should know that she wants me to do so. The last thing I want to do is make undesired advances, but goodness she does look yummy.